Confessions of an abuser.

Experiencing abuse allowed me to recognize my own abusive patterns.

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Psychology says we replicate the relationships the way that we’re shown as children. The relationship that was demonstrated for me as a child was wild and angry. My parents were tormented by their unresolved demons from their childhood and so tormented each other. As a child, I vowed to never be this way. I broke my vow time and time again. .